California Adventures: Week One
Instead of racing along to get to my family like I usually do, this time I slowed things down and took some time to "smell the roses" as I drove from Salem, OR to Willits, CA. I am always curious about the interesting things I see along the way and it was so nice to pull over multiple times to check something out.
Sunday, July 23rd: I had a 6 hour drive to get to my hotel in Crescent City, CA, but that was because I chose to add an extra hour so I could drive south along the Oregon Coast, something I had never done before. The best option was to cut over toward the coast near Eugene, OR and head west to Florence. Mike and Suzy recommended one of their favorite restaurants for me to have lunch in Florence, so I made that my destination.
Florence Harbor . . .
The wind was pretty strong at this point, so it made for some spectacular and model-worthy photos. See and judge for yourself.
Monday, July 24th: The breakfast was pitiful, however. It included the minimal fixings of Frosted Flakes, Cheerios, bagels, yogurts, and juices. I didn't want any of those. Thankfully, I had a nectarine and a string cheese with me, so that's what I ate as I started my last big day of driving (for a while).
I went on a walk to the nearby Battery Point Lighthouse. I passed a very irate lady, who was yelling this and that, using F-bombs every other word, mostly yelling about the police, etc. She was venting to a guy seated on the bench next to where she stood, angrily hollering and getting everything out. I was troubled to hear everything she was saying, so I started praying in my mind: "Please bless her. Please help her to be comforted, to know she is loved, to feel at peace. Please bless ME to have charity, please bless me to feel love for her, etc." It was unnerving to start the day with that scene, but I hope she had a better day after she got all of that out.
My first stop heading south was to visit the Trees of Mystery, something I have driven past numerous times and never stopped!! It was SO WORTH my time.
The legendary Paul Bunyan and his blue ox, Babe, are HUGE. They make it easy to find this place, since there wasn't any signage until right where the trees opened up on the highway and suddenly there it was.
There are all sorts of unique Redwood or Sequoia tree formations to see, like this one. The sign says: "These are the trees you have seen in Ripleys Believe It Or Not."
I was eager to try out the Canopy Trail, a series of suspension bridges hanging from mid-canopy height amongst the giant trees. You go from tree to tree, where there is a secure platform once you have crossed the "air" in between.
Yoda is there to wish you well as you begin traversing the first suspension bridge. Thank you, Yoda.
I found a nice family from Twin Falls, Idaho to take a photo of me. I always offer to take other people's photo first, which opens the door for an opportunity for myself afterwards. :)
This set of trees (below) carries some significance. The sign behind me in the photo reads:
"This is their temple, vaulted high,
And here we pause, with reverent eye,
With silent tongue and awe-struck soul,
For here we sense life's proper goal.
"To be like these, straight, true, and fine,
To make our world, like theirs, a shrine;
Sink down, oh traveler, on your knees,
God stands where you are in the trees."
The sign on the left explains that this is a living monument, dedicated to Joseph B. Strauss.
I "saw" an old saw, stuck in the base of a giant Sequoia tree . . .
If you look closely at the next photo, you'll see more than one saw . . .
The view at the top was a bit obscured - "I can't see the forest for the trees . . ." There is a large viewing platform, but the view itself wasn't overly impressive to me.
There is a Wilderness Trail to get back down to the bottom if you so choose. It's about a mile and is described as "not for beginners". I heard the gondola attendant saying that the first bit is almost straight down, before it levels out and then has some ups and downs closer to the base. I did not choose to go down the trail, mainly because I was not wearing suitable shoes for such an endeavor.
Views heading back down . . .
Video of a portion of the ride back down in the gondola: (31 seconds)
I back-tracked down the trail, once I got off the gondola, because I wanted to see the Brotherhood Tree. It's one of the oldest trees still living . . . And it's dedicated to the "Brotherhood of Man: All races, creeds and colors."
"Baby Cathedral Tree. We are taking reservations for weddings when this display is ready 600 years from now. You can see here how cathedral tree (sic) is formed."
I bought a few things in the Gift Shop and then off I went down the road again. I spent about 2 hours visiting the Trees of Mystery and I enjoyed every single minute!!
My next stop was in Trinidad, CA to fill up with gas and get lunch. (I realize how that sounds . . .)
I made a bad choice in taking the Patrick's Point exit (slightly north of Trinidad) - which led me NOWHERE, except for an endless narrow road on the edge of a cliff, and included several horrible spots in the road where it was chunky rocks/dirt/gravel instead of pavement and also several areas of warped pavement that I could not believe I had to drive over oh-so-carefully so I didn't ruin the underside of my car.
Eventually I found a way to get back to Hwy. 101 and soon I made it into the actual town of Trinidad. The Patrick's Point exit was misleading because it said Trinidad on it, and it also professed to have food offerings. I think they lied . . .
I didn't have any internet to make an educated choice on where to eat, so I just found a place to park after I filled up the car with gas and walked to a nearby restaurant. It was called Trinidad Bay Eatery. It was super busy and I had to wait about 20 minutes just to get a table for one. The lunch options were pretty spendy, but I was hungry and I was already there, so I chose the Tuna Melt sandwich with a little serving of slaw. The sandwich was great. The slaw was meh.
I always love to take the detour known as Avenue of the Giants. It's a beautiful and slower road adjacent to Hwy. 101 that meanders through the Redwood forests. There are several places to pull over and just hop onto a trail.
I did great until the very last moment. I had to make a split decision where there was a fork in the road. I knew that I was supposed to follow the 28701 signs, but I also knew I was supposed to take the road to the right as I pulled up to the house. So I took the road to the right.
That was the wrong decision. In fact, it was a very bad decision.
I stopped the car, and with a racing pulse, I cried out to my Heavenly Father to please help me get back down. I tearfully began backing up, one inch at a time, using my backup camera and my left side mirror. I was most concerned with the sharp cliff on my left, so when my backup camera started beeping at me as I crept too close to the shoulder on my right, I didn't care. I let some branches scrape the side of my car twice because I'd rather have that happen than to roll down the cliff onto my Dad's house below.
As it turned out, my Dad and I just missed each other as he went out to look for me. He knew what time I would be arriving, so when I didn't arrive, he drove off to find me. I saw him drive off as I was backing down the hill next to him, but he didn't see me . . . until about 30 minutes later he came back to learn that I had arrived "safely".
The mixup had to do with this: in the photo above, there is a sign that says 28701 just as Dad had instructed me. If I had just followed that, then when I came around the corner toward the house, THAT'S when there is a split and THAT'S where I was supposed to stay to the right. Whoopsies.
Good thing I'm staying here for TWO WEEKS so I can practice getting it right -- for the rest of my life!!
I checked the right side of my car for scratches, and thankfully it wasn't too bad. I'm just glad I made it down that scary road . . . what an entry, ha ha.
Bud Snider was the pastor of the Willits Community Church from 1968 until the year before he died in 1993. He also worked as a Public Works supervisor for many years. I thought he sounded like a really fun guy when I read in his obituary that he dreamed of being a cowboy in his youth, and even participated in several rodeos as a young adult.
Clockwise from Dad in the upper left: Dad, Caleb (leaning on his mom's head), Melanie, Me, and Mandie.
After lunch, Dad and I went over to their current house project on Margie Drive to get some work done. They are renovating the entire interior to sell the house. The recent renters took horrible care of the house and now it is requiring a TON of work to prepare it for new owners. They have replaced flooring throughout, and in some cases, new drywall and walls. Everything has been slowly repainted and put back together.
I helped caulk some rooms where the new flooring meets up with the walls, so that all the baseboards can be put back on soon. When Michelle got back from teaching (summer school at the college in Ukiah), I helped her out back with a daunting and tedious task.
The previous renters broke some of the tiles surrounding the woodstove in the family room, but rather than start all over and buy new tiles, we are trying to work with and repurpose the tiles that are already there. In order to reapply them, we have to scrape off all the old mortar first . . . it's not an easy task.
Michelle and I enjoyed visiting while we scraped and dug and scraped some more.
This weekly trip down the road is known as "feeding the bear". While we're not sure if the bear is actually eating the scraps, someone sure is . . . it could be the birds, or foxes, or raccoons, etc.
Wednesday, July 26th: Back at the Margie house, Michelle and I decided to pick some blackberries in the back yard. The wild bushes will soon be torn out to clean up the yard to make it more appealing to a prospective buyer, but with so many ripe berries at the moment, it would be a shame to let them all go to waste. We each had a bowl, and got to work in separate areas.
After picking berries for a while, getting nice and sweaty, I changed my clothes and headed down to Ukiah to see my Mom and Grandma Doris. We met at Dalistan Care Home, where Grandma is getting such good care still.
I later learned from my Mom that Grandma was unusually perky that afternoon, and we were both surprised that she recognized me right away and even said my name! Mom and I took turns sitting next to her and then sitting over on the bed so the other one could visit with her up close.
I took several videos during our visit with Grandma. I know she wasn't "at her best", but I also know that it's important to capture in real time the moments that we DO have with our loved ones.
Video #1: A chat about how Grandma gets her hair done. (29 seconds)
Video #2: First time through - singing "Old Spinning Wheel". (1 min, 22 seconds)
Video #3: Mom - in a cute blooper - ad-libbing as she realized she didn't have all the right sheet music. (21 seconds)
Video #4: A more polished version of "Old Spinning Wheel". (39 seconds)
Video #5: Singing "Yes, Jesus Loves Me", a favorite song from Grandma's childhood. (43 seconds)
Video #6: Grandma trying to spell her name, Doris, in sign language. (41 seconds)
During the last portion of our visit, we took down Grandma's favorite painting off the wall so she could see it and touch it. She used a mixture of words and sign language to describe to us how this scene was something she created in her own mind, but a few of the objects were "copied" from other reference points. (such as the gate)
She ran her fingers over the painting several times, reminiscing back to when she actually had the paintbrush in her hand, doing the brush strokes. We could tell it brought back happy memories for her.
I'm so glad I got to visit her again, something I didn't ever think I'd be able to do. Last summer, I had a strong impression that I wouldn't see her again in this life. But I did! And I'm so grateful. :)
Thursday, July 27th: We worked on the Margie house for a good portion of the day. I finished painting the bathroom for Michelle, after she did some prep and trim work the day before. I was determined to make the last little bit of paint sufficient to finish the job, and I had to be strategic during the process. I was very selective about where to apply more generous amounts of paint, versus where to skimp and save. Thankfully, there was already a first layer of paint on all the walls, so this second layer was to freshen everything up.
Because I was extra careful in how I used the tiny bit of paint left in the bucket, I was able to finish everything in the bathroom with pretty much nothing leftover . . .
While he snoozed away, Michelle and I sat out on the back patio for a while, scraping/digging/cleaning those darn fireplace tiles again. We made some measurable progress, though, which was satisfying. Another analogy for life: even though something might seem impossible and tedious at best, just keep chipping away at it. Eventually you'll be able to see some progress, however small.
Friday, July 28th: I had a nice long video call with Scott, where we caught up on several things. Some days, we only get to talk for a few minutes and that's it. It's even harder to connect now because we're 9 hours apart, instead of the usual 8. That means that we have even less time during the mornings (for me) before it's bedtime for him!
I went down to Ukiah to spend the afternoon with my Mom and my niece, Ana (Charmaine's daughter). Unfortunately, Ana didn't sleep well the night before, so she wasn't able to join us.
I went with my mom to the nearby health club to swim and tan all afternoon. What a treat!
We chatted quite a bit, too, which was nice. We stayed until after 6:00 before we drove back to her house and made a salad together for dinner. We had a wonderful day!!
Saturday, July 29th: After a short chat with Scott, I drove into Willits with Dad and Michelle to get to work on the Margie house again. Michelle and I spent some time out front, cleaning up a flower bed, clearing out some miscellaneous garbage up against the house, and trying to figure out the best way to prep for cement and brick next week. She wants to mix up and pour some cement to lay a foundation for a brick "pad" in front of the living room and up against the front of the house.
We headed back into The Forest around 7:00 p.m., barbecued some chicken for dinner, partnered up with steamed purple cauliflower and corn on the cob. Delicious!
Sunday, July 30th: Happy Birthday Jacob!! I can't believe he's 27 years old now . . .
This was him on his 2nd birthday . . .
Jacob, sleeping with little Benson, who apparently liked to sleep face down . . .
A numbers guy at an early age, just like his father . . .
Always the clown in the family . . .
Scott was wrestling and having fun with the kids before he left for Iraq the second time in 2010. We took lots of pictures of normal, everyday things so we could refer back to them often whenever we missed him.
L to R: Jacob, Scott, Benson (with the crazy eyes), and Amber
Jake and Hannah on their wedding day in 2019
And now he's a proud and loving papa himself . . .
On Sunday morning, I woke up with a swollen gland in my throat, feeling tired, and wishing I didn't need to get out of bed. Thankfully, as the day went on, I felt better and not worse. I went to church in Willits this time, when I had originally planned to go to church with my Mom down in Ukiah, but she has been feeling under the weather, too. I hope she gets better soon, like I seem to be . . .
I was able to see (and hug) an old friend at church today: Gloria Urich. She used to be one of my young women leaders at Girls Camp when I was a teenager. She is an unusual lady, but so amazing at the same time! She is outspoken, sometimes too loudly, and can even make you feel uncomfortable at times with what comes out of her mouth. But more than all of these things, she is kind, she is spunky and full of grit with whatever life throws at her, she has the ability to see the bigger picture (most of the time), and wants more than anything for everyone to be given the benefit of the doubt. She is an advocate for those who need it, and she seems to lean more toward the mercy end of things, more so than the justice side.
For example, I thanked her for being one of those people who always made me feel loved and accepted as a young lady. We talked about a situation where there was a tricky situation at Girls Camp, involving some of my friends (38 or so years ago). She said it's more important to LOVE the girl than to DISCIPLINE the behavior. And that's so true!! Even though I'm a huge advocate for that same philosophy now, I wasn't always so good at preaching love over discipline as I raised my kids. I'm pretty strong on JUSTICE, and in many cases I overlooked MERCY and LOVE. I am learning, however, and feeling better about the direction I'm headed in life. Thank goodness for change and repentance and life lessons and good examples to follow! (The best one of course = Jesus Christ)
On a side note, Gloria has had so much to overcome, especially in the last year or two. She had a significant stroke and has also been suffering from some severe depression, causing her to contemplate suicide more than once. And yet, she still shows up to church, she still gets work done each week, and still makes people laugh. She also has a family of 14 bears out on her VERY remote property. She told me today that Simon will eat out of her hand, Big Daddy shows up once a year to let her know he's still around, and whenever a new momma has cubs, she brings them over to show Gloria. Whaaat???
Some Final Items . . .
I haven't uploaded photos of my grandchildren in a couple weeks, so I will attempt to catch up now!
Jack - up in a tree in his new hometown of Minneapolis . . .
Fun with cousins on his mommas' side . . . (Jack is on the far right)
Livin' the dream with Grandpa Bob on his tractor . . .
This could literally be on a postcard . . . how cute is this?!!
Meanwhile, Amber and Weston took the girls down to South Padre Island, Texas for the weekend. I looked it up on the map, and it's quite a drive from their home in Louisiana! (About 8.5 hours) It's south of Corpus Christi and very close to the border of Mexico. But it looks like they had a super fun time!!
Gwen, Abby, and Amber
Looking ahead: I'll be helping in a variety of ways this next week at the Margie house. We plan to pour cement out front, lay some brick, and reinstall all the baseboards throughout the house. The Rawles Family Picnic is also scheduled for next Saturday - I hope lots of people come! I also look forward to visiting a couple of friends in Ukiah and spending more time with my Mom. Should be a great week!
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